My three children have been going through major challenges this past week as their Dad just told them his was moving to a new place in a week, and one of them lived there, the other had all their stuff there! My son lives there, and he gave him a week to move out. He has many issues, and is not a healthy man at this time, unfortunately he loves his medications. He never really had a relationship with my son, and my son doesn't like him at all, which is understandable. My son has been wanting his own place for a few years, and was intending to move out, but this was a shock to all of them.
My daughter who was always the closest to him, as he would tell her his problems with me when she was a young girl. The home was not a calm, peaceful one, and the kids were highly affected, just as I was as a child. How history repeated itself, but never again! The new children born are Crystal, Indigo, Rainbow children, born with such high energy, to help us here on earth during this transitional time of the ascension, creating Heaven On Earth!! (thelovingnewearth.blogspot.com) But, she is sad now as her Dad is leaving, and didn't want to tell anyone where he is going. She was upset about it the day she was getting her things and saw him, feeling like he is leaving her behind! She was crying on the phone to me a bit, and then was really upset the rest of the day. But, when I spoke to her yesterday, she was really angry with him, cursing him out, focusing on how could he do this to everyone? I tried to tell her to let him go, there is nothing else we can do for him any longer, he wants to go and be set free. Free from his life with me and his three children, free from having to accept the damage he caused by his abuse, and him taking them away from me! He can not face what he did, so he is creating a new life for himself, one without my children in it. He basically told my son that they will hardly be hearing from him any longer! Wow, something that is positive and healthy to tell your own son, that you never even threw the football with? I could go on and on about what their Dad has and hasn't done for them, as he is an abusive man with a lot of anger, and holds anger and resentment to all. My daughter spoke a lot about him leaving like this, how wrong it was, etc. I listened, and then again explained the process of her letting him go! Then, I brought up to her about dinner we were going to have for her sister's birthday, and she said "no one want's to have family dinners anymore!!". Wow, to say that was hurtful is an under statement. What is she saying? So, that caused a problem, and she got mad and hung up. I asked her what she was talking about, and explained how now, more than ever, is the time for us to get together and bond. We need each other, we love each other, and we love to get together. My son was very picked on growing up, and the girls wouldn't leave him alone always saying negative things to him. When he started driving he didn't want to be with us that much, and wasn't. But, he enjoys being with us now, as long as my daughter is being nice to him!
I don't understand what goes on with children, how we have this major cord attachment to them and feel their pain. They are such a part of you, that you feel everything they go through, and then some, as I think I worry more. My daughter has seemed to get more bitter as the years go by, about her childhood and stuff that happened. But it is time to let go, let go of the stuff you already talked about, let go of the pain, and turn to gratitude! Turn to what you have now, and now she is living in a beautiful home with her Aunt and Uncle who love her dearly. Let go of her Dad, send him love and light, and pray for his healing. But, don't always bring it up daily, and complain about him, because that sends him and yourself such negative energy, very low vibrations. When we send someone love, pray for them, etc., they really feel it, and so do we, and so does the entire world, because we are all connected, the collective counciousness! But, so many people do this, what we call drama, going on and on, again and again, rehashing their negative experience with someone, and rehashing that persons pain and issues! It is time to wake up and realize all the energy we put out to someone, affects us and the world!
I love my children dearly, and it's upsetting when they are not positive about life, about people, and especially about each other! We all have so much to be grateful for, and the more we turn to this, the more it occurs! So, count your blessings, each day of your life, and you will see more and more on their way!
Love and Light!
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